Marriage Check-in: 30 Questions for a Better Marriage
Marriage can become pretty routine after time. Days start to blend together and habits are created, some good, some bad. I honestly believe that in order for a marriage to be exceptional, you need to incorporate a marriage check-in. This can be completed weekly, monthly, quarterly or yearly. It’s important to conduct a marriage check-in regardless of the number of years you have been married.
Communication really is key in a good marriage, so communicating through check-ins, especially, gives you and your spouse a good idea of where your marriage stands and how to make improvements to it.
Here are 30 questions you and your spouse can ask each other to make sure you’re on the same page and as happy as can be within your marriage:
- What am I doing now that you like?
- Is there anything that I used to do that you wish I still did?
- What would you like to see my improve on?
- Do you feel that we’re strong communicators?
- In your opinion, is there anything we can do to work more as a team?
- How can I pray for you?
- Do you feel like you can talk to me about anything?
- What would you change about our sex life?
- What’s the best way for me to initiate sex?
- Are you satisfied with the way we currently divide responsibilities?
- Is there anything I do (or fail to do) that seems to indicate my lack of commitment to our marriage?
- Is there anything you’re currently struggling with? Current stresses?
- What is my most attractive quality?
- What is your dream date with me?
- What is something we should do, but haven’t?
- Do you feel as though we understand each other more now?
- How has your love for my changed since we got married?
- Do you feel respected by me?
- Do you feel accepted by me?
- Which couple do you feel has the most ideal marriage and why?
- Do you feel as though you get enough alone time or time with friends?
- Do you feel as though your dreams and goals are supported?
- Is marriage different than you expected? If so, how?
- What’s your favorite memory with me?
- Are there times when you feel I am too critical of you?
- What has been the biggest adjustment you have made since getting married?
- Is there anything you need from me to continue to grow as a person/father/husband?
- How can I complement your strengths and weaknesses?
- What expectations do you have for me as your spouse?
- Do you feel loved and appreciate every day?
Here is a printable with these 30 questions! Pin it, save it or print it!
