Talking to your Kids about School Violence and Safety

It’s every parent’s worst nightmare: the thought of their child being involved in a school shooting or any form of school violence. While these events are rare, they do unfortunately happen, and it’s important for parents to have open and honest conversations with their children about school safety.

Here are some tips on how to talk to your kids about school violence and safety:

1. Start the conversation early: It’s important to talk to your kids about school safety before any incidents occur. This way, they’ll have a better understanding of what to do in case of an emergency.
2. Be age-appropriate: The way you talk to your 5-year-old about school safety will be very different from how you talk to your 15-year-old. Tailor your conversation to your child’s age and level of understanding.
3. Reassure them: Let your child know that schools are generally safe places, and that there are many adults in the school who are trained to keep them safe.
4. Encourage them to speak up: Let your child know that if they ever see or hear something that concerns them, they should tell an adult right away.
5. Practice safety drills: Many schools hold safety drills throughout the year. Talk to your child about what to do during these drills, and reassure them that these drills are just a precaution.
6. Monitor their media consumption: It’s important to monitor what your child is watching on TV or reading online, especially in the aftermath of a school shooting or other violent incident. Make sure they’re not exposed to graphic or disturbing images that could traumatize them.
7. Stay calm: It’s natural to feel scared or anxious when talking to your child about school safety, but it’s important to stay calm and composed. Your child will take cues from you, so try to be reassuring and positive.
8. Stay informed: Stay up to date on any safety measures your child’s school is taking, and make sure you’re familiar with the school’s emergency procedures.

By having these conversations with your child, you’ll be better prepared to help them stay safe in school. Remember, the goal isn’t to scare them, but to empower them with the knowledge and tools they need to stay safe.